How Do I Change for the Better? 17 Things to Start Doing.

To alter something in a life is really a big deal and here we have to alter or change our own living life style and begin with a new one. If you notice any negative behavior about yourself you have to change and rectify it.

Making a change and fighting with negative thoughts, losing weight that is also a one step forward for betterment in life, struggle to achieve goals, move out from your comfort zone, be kind, give yourself challenges, be a silent fighter for the betterment in life. “Take the positive action for the positive change.”

Are we truly interested in a change in life?

First of all, we have to motivate ourselves to change for betterment in life. Give yourselfgoals to improve the living standards of your life. To achieve something big you have to start from small first. First, you change your negative behavior.” Life only changes when you want, if you dream big and do not want to leave your comfort zone and want a change in life then you are not committed”

It is not a straight-line process; you have to face ups and downs to stop complaining about how I only change it because it your life and your time and it is this time that goes it never comes back.

How to begin?

How to begin to change or how to revamp your life is a very big question. To alter your life style there are aspects that you will like or dislike but you have to take these steps. First of all, you have to make a map in your mindset, from where we want start as it has no ending you continuously alter your life day by day as life gives you different experiences from which you learn many lessons.

Below there I will write 17 key factors to start altering your life as there are many but I will write only which increase our chances of making a significant impact.

17 things to start doing for a better change in life: –

1. LET’S GET OUT OF THE PAST: –

To first alter your life, you have to delete bad memories and let them go. Most people live in the past and cling to the things of life that were not so important. Nothing is permanent in life, but if you are clever, you willsee that you will learn something better from these life experiences.

Remove negative mental people.
Remove yourself from toxic relationships.
Change your company.
be in the present moment.

CONSIDER THE CHALLENGES: –

When you start changes for the better you have to give challenges to yourself and consider these challenges to get and betterment in life. There will be many challenges you face in life for success like fear, self-doubt, rejection but to have to stay true to yourself and overcome the challenges.
For example,
when any person with a high weight he/she gives a challenge to their self that you have to transform yourself in next 3 months, then he/she motivates their self to lose weight by seeing video or other and he/her get success in this challenge after 3 months and then after success there is another level of satisfaction and he/her become maintain their weight.

PLAN YOUR NEW ROUTINE AND REVAMP YOURSELF: –

It’s essential that we continue to grow and continue to grow and change in

big or small ways-one day at a time.

quote 1:CAREN MARRICK

Planning before doing any work or any change is an essential tool. First make a bucket list in which to write which aspect helps you to plan a live a good life, after that you have to take action with these lists. Take risks and make mistakes and learn from those mistakes.

TRY, TRY AGAIN TILL YOU SUCCESSED.

GIVE YOURSELF A 30 DAYS CHALLENGE: –

“Every challenge you face today makes you stronger tomorrow.” The

The challenge of life is intended to make you feel better, not bitter.”

quote 2: Roy T. Bennett

When you start to alter your life you have to pass many challenges to really pass these challenges, you will give yourself a 30 day challenge in which you complete some tasks to change for the better. Like you wake up too late then you give yourself a challenge to wake up early in the morning and do exercise and bolster your self-esteem, make your goal and complete itdaily. Use or learn motivational quotes to be positive about yourself.

REMOVE THE NEGATIVE PEOPLE FROM YOUR LIFE: –

“Negative people will pollute everything around them.”
quote 3:MANDY HALE

Removing negative people from your life is a hard step to alter your life, but you have to remove them as they degrade you, which is why you are doing that. They are such selfish people, they will not be happy with your success, these people are from family circles, from friends or other community members. Live your own life and work on your life, build a strong relationship with yourself.

STOP COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS: –

“Every flower blooms at a different pace.”

When you are changing for the better life then there are many people who come in front of you and you are doing analysis and comparing yourself with other people, at this point you don’t have to do that, because you have a separate life, separate body. You want to look like them but you have to build your life on your ownnot to copy others.

SET YOUR GOALS: –

“Set your goals high, and don’t stop till you get there”
quote 4:BO JACKSON

When you are stepping toward in the change of life, you have to set goals to be successful in life. Goals like making a passive income source, building a strong relationship, waking up early in the morning or all like them which make your life better.

LIVING YOUR OWN LIFE: –

“IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE“

quote 5:UNKNOWN

When you remove the negative people from your life you are left alone or with your positive people, but you have to live your own life as no one feeds or helps you in the worst situation of life.

BE KIND AND COURTEOUS: –

“Be kind. Be courteous. Love others and be happy. It’s that simple.”

quote 6:Daniel Norris

When you become successful in life you have to be respectful and kind to others. Treating people with respect, then you absorb that positive people will surround you, and love you and respect you.

“If you want respect, you have to give respect to others”

PRACTICE EMPATHY: –

“Empathy is the greatest virtue”
quote 7:ERIC ZORN

Practicing empathy means listening to someone else, asking the right questions and any other way of truly understanding what they’re saying and feeling from their own point of view. The ability to assume someone else’s point of view to better understand their motivations is vital to your ability to empathize with them.

GUIDE OR LIVE A HEALTHY LIFE: –

“A healthy mind and a healthy body make you happy and live a better life.”

Be very conscious about what you are eating and also track your sleeping habits because a sound mind will work better. A healthy lifestyle works productively and lessens stress.

WORKING ON STRONG LEARNIG POWER: –

“The capacity to learn skill and willingness to learn it is a gift”

quote 8:BRAIN HERBET

We are continuously learning in life. A person who does not learn is a dead mind and can never grow. If you are a good learner, it opens many possibilities to become successful in life

WORK ON YOUR COMMUNICATION: –

“Good communication is the bridge between confusion and clarity”

quote 9:NAT TUNNER

You have to work on your communication, as a good listener is a good

Communicator. To talk professionally, you have to first work on your active listening power.

Get a coach: –

“A coach is someone who allows you to see the hope inside yourself”

Quote -10:OPRAH

Coaches are valuable sources of knowledge. Whether you’re starting a business, going back to college or changing careers, coaches have experienced similar milestones. Choosea coach who will give you the best insight into your current phase of life or career level.

WORKING ON BUSINESS FOR PASSIVE INCOME: –

“Do something today that your future self will thank youfor.”

quote 11:UNKNOWN

For betterment of life, you have to work on the passive income source. As passive income reduces stress, having financial freedom and achieving goals becomes easier

USE TECHNOLOGY TO STAY FOCUSED: –

“Technology should improve your life…not becomeyour life”

Quote 12: – Billy Cox

Well, with the help of technology, you can, for example, easily create to-do lists with reminders, schedule all the tasks that need to be done around the home, etc., and do all other things that can help you stay on top of your responsibilities and get more done in less time.

DON’T TAKE LIFE TOO SERIOUSLY: –

“Don’t take life too seriously.you will never get out of it alive”

quote 13:ELBERT HUBBARD

It means to keep moving. Let it go. Enjoy life while you can. Bad things happen, but so do the good things. Don’t close your door to opportunities or relationships just because of one bad experience.

CONCLUSION: –

The final thought that “how do I change it better” is the step to steer your life in a positive direction. So, these small changes will help you to live a better life and have a clear road ahead.